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She expressed strong views that I had been selfish and had neglected her over the years and now the children needed her less she had been looking for an interest and Evony just crept up. Unfortunately things didnaEU(tm)t change much and this lead to a massive row where all sorts of discontentment and old issues were raised.

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She also started to sometimes hide the game and chat behind other windows when I came close by switching browser tabs.

We had several aEU~robustaEU(tm) discussions but it continued to rumble on despite her agreeing to moderate the time she was spending on line. The children were getting very upset about this. At that time she had a small part time job helping a freind in an office once or twice a week with flexible hours and she was only going to work when she had to in the early evening for two or three hours, having been on evony most of the day and then coming home to do a meal at 9 or later whilst continuing the game.

When I came home again the house was a total mess and I watched her get up one morning go straight to the laptop and start gaming, she eventually got dressed late in the afternoon cooked the family meal around the game and the chat and was still playing at 4 the following morning - she was on 16 hours that day.

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From overseas I could see when she was logged on to the internet, often for 12 hrs plus a day and she would still be on till 3,4 and 5 in the morning. I couldnaEU(tm)t help wondering though and decided to have a crafty snoop at what she was doing on line as I had no idea what evony was (she often left the laptop running) and I saw some pretty flirtatious chat between her and other players.Ĭhristmas 2009 was dreadful, she had been spending hours a day on the laptop and when I got home in December there were few preparations made for the celebrations and the decorations only went up in the nick of time on Christmas eve, so there were some cross words, in fact I was pleased to return to work overseas afterwards to get away from it. This set me wondering and I asked her what had changed, she was reluctant to reply but when pressed eventually told me not to aEUoeanalyze it but enjoy itaEUoe. She then started to get amorous when she finally did join me, which was a little out of character as previously it had mainly been left to me to instigate bedroom activities, something that we had aEU~discussedaEU~ several times during our relationship.

I didnaEU(tm)t really notice what was happening at first but towards the end of 2009 It became apparent she was spending a lot of time on her laptop, coming to bed after me and a lot of real life tasks were not getting done. The children are getting older and starting to aEU~fly the nestaEU(tm) and my wife found Evony on the internet. That is I think when this really started. Our plan was to capitalise on the income to allow us to move house and hopefully retire early. Then my luck ran out at the end of 2008 and I had to accept another position abroad that meant working month on, month off.

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I then managed to find a series of jobs for about 8 years that got me home every night but the hours were still long and involved being on call 24/7. She has never really had any interests of her own outside the children and a few part time jobs despite me trying to encourage her (probably not surprising, as she never had much time!). She always managed the home and kids well and rarely complained. That certainly did not make my wifeaEU(tm)s lot easy raising the children mainly on her own. Throughout our marriage I have mostly been employed on jobs that have taken me away from home either Monday to Friday or for weeks at a time.

I have not been the perfect husband as I have often put work and sometimes other interests before those of my wife and children, not quite a case of working hard and playing hard but more not concentrating properly on giving my wife the support and appreciation she desired or deserved, although I didnaEU(tm)t see it that way at the time, I was concentrating on earning a living. Where to start? Well I guess at the beginning except IaEU(tm)m not really sure where that is! First maybe some background I have been married to my wife for 23 years and I suppose like any couple we have had our ups and downs. Here is the start of my story - who knows how it will end? I thought my situation could be managed and resolved but now after 12 months of anguish it is clear it is out of control. I found this site maybe six months ago and found the posts really interesting and helpful but up til this last week have never posted anything.